Today has been awesome. You wore your brand-new Nikes to school and felt like a total superstar walking down the halls. Then you got your history test back with a nearly perfect score. (Looks like those weeks of studying paid off!) At home, Dad even made your favorite for dinner, extra cheesy chicken quesadillas. You plop down on the couch after polishing off a second helping, feeling totally relaxed and content.
Until you check your phone. That’s when the doubt creeps in.
You scroll past Sarah’s beaming selfie with the caption Guess who got a perfect score on her history AND algebra tests?!
You open the Snap that Max sent of his #OOTD. He’s wearing the same Nikes you have, plus the hoodie you were both eyeing at the Supreme store last weekend.
Then you see Omar’s TikTok. He’s having dinner with some of your friends at that new pizza place you’ve been dying to try, and they’re all laughing at what you’re sure is an inside joke.
Suddenly, your amazing day starts to feel sort of . . . blah. Does this sound familiar?
If you answered yes, you’re not alone. Twenty-three percent of teens say scrolling through their feeds makes them feel worse about their own life. Why? It starts with the fact that much of the time we spend on social media is devoted to looking in on other people’s lives. We binge vlogs of influencers showing off their clothing and skin care hauls filled with the best brands. We watch YouTubers live stream the newest games from their top-of-the-line, super cool gaming setups. We double-tap pics of perfect-looking celebrities lounging in their beautiful mansions. And while we’re looking at all these people, we start comparing ourselves with them. Before long, we can get stuck in a spiral of thinking I wish that were me.
While these feelings are normal, experts say comparing ourselves with others on social media can take a toll on our mental health. The good news is, there are ways you can start to feel better. And don’t worry, they don’t involve giving up your Snapchat or TikTok for good.
Today has been awesome. You wore your brand-new Nikes to school. You felt like a total superstar. Then you got your history test back with a nearly perfect score. (Those weeks of studying paid off!) At home, Dad made your favorite meal for dinner. You plop down on the couch. You feel relaxed and content.
Then you check your phone. That’s when the doubt creeps in.
You scroll past Sarah’s selfie with the caption Guess who got a perfect score on her history AND algebra tests?!
You open the Snap that Max sent of his #OOTD. He’s wearing the same Nikes you have. Plus, he’s got the hoodie you were both eyeing at the store last weekend.
Then you see Omar’s TikTok. He’s having dinner at that new pizza place you’ve been dying to try. He’s with some of your friends.
Suddenly, your amazing day starts to feel sort of . . . blah. Does this sound familiar?
If you answered yes, you’re not alone. Twenty-three percent of teens say scrolling through their feeds makes them feel worse about their own life. Why? Much of the time we spend on social media is devoted to looking in on other people’s lives. We binge vlogs of influencers showing off things from the best brands. We watch YouTubers live stream the newest games from their super cool gaming setups. We double-tap pics of perfect-looking celebrities in their beautiful mansions. And while we’re looking at all these people, we start comparing ourselves with them. Before long, we can get stuck in a spiral of thinking I wish that were me.
These feelings are normal. But experts say comparing ourselves with others on social media can be bad for our mental health. The good news is, there are ways to feel better. And don’t worry, they don’t involve giving up Snapchat or TikTok for good.